"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What do you do together with your gf

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Caesar20

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in a long-term relationship (when the initial butterflies die) after a couple of years maybe? e.g. what similar hobbies do you have etc.?
the obvious problem is, that you can't talk all the time for years.

especially opinions from those that are in their first ltr would be appreciated (and are in the range of 25years or more)?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Nighthawk

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We play around a lot, long-established little games of naughtiness and punishment. Hasn't got old yet.

If you find the right woman you can talk all the time for years, the same as with your male friends.

Also Grand Theft Auto - I love having a girlfriend who enjoys stealing cop cars and blowing up hookers.
 

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I have observed this with my parents and older couples (grandparents of friends): they don't do $hit together. Even when they're eating, they're doing so quietly and not much needs to be said between them. Although, at the end of the day, and after all these years, they're still together and can't be anymore happier. I honestly don't get it. Well, maybe it's like comfortable silences that almost all of us in here are familiar with. I have a good friend whom I could hang with all day and we'll barely say more than 4 lines. Even if we're playing sports or watching TV or whatever.

I'm interested in hearing some responses from guys who have some experience with this.
 

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how do you know they are happy? the fact that they are together doesn't necesseraly mean that much (there could be other factors, like security, not-loneliness...)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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