"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do you do together with your gf

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Caesar20

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in a long-term relationship (when the initial butterflies die) after a couple of years maybe? e.g. what similar hobbies do you have etc.?
the obvious problem is, that you can't talk all the time for years.

especially opinions from those that are in their first ltr would be appreciated (and are in the range of 25years or more)?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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We play around a lot, long-established little games of naughtiness and punishment. Hasn't got old yet.

If you find the right woman you can talk all the time for years, the same as with your male friends.

Also Grand Theft Auto - I love having a girlfriend who enjoys stealing cop cars and blowing up hookers.
 

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I have observed this with my parents and older couples (grandparents of friends): they don't do $hit together. Even when they're eating, they're doing so quietly and not much needs to be said between them. Although, at the end of the day, and after all these years, they're still together and can't be anymore happier. I honestly don't get it. Well, maybe it's like comfortable silences that almost all of us in here are familiar with. I have a good friend whom I could hang with all day and we'll barely say more than 4 lines. Even if we're playing sports or watching TV or whatever.

I'm interested in hearing some responses from guys who have some experience with this.
 

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how do you know they are happy? the fact that they are together doesn't necesseraly mean that much (there could be other factors, like security, not-loneliness...)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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