You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What do you want? A freakin' how-to manual? It doesn't work that way.itishe said:Ok, you guys did absolutly nothing in your replies.
Thats the best sh!t in the world when she can't even walk anymore.theunflushables said:Well it all depends man. Is this one girl we're talking about or multiples? If its one girl then sh1t it could be anything. One girl I dated could only get off on oral, another she could come during sex but only if she rubbed her ****, and another could come so easily I had her up to nine before she had to stop, she couldnt walk afterwards.![]()
If this is happening with multiples it may be something in your basic technique, just go with the flow and read her body. One thing to watch out for is that you don't become repetitive like a robot.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
OK, how about I come to your house and bang your broad and you watch and videotape it?itishe said:Ok, you guys did absolutly nothing in your replies.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Sounds better than, "be the man".Interceptor said:OK, how about I come to your house and bang your broad and you watch and videotape it?
How's that?
Better?
A fvcking "creampie"! :yes:joekerr31 said:stick a banana in her *ss and hit her in the face with a pie.
What can I say, I'm just thorough. This morning only lasted two hours if that makes you feel better.theunflushables said:Or if you don't have five hours
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.