Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What do you do to get your girl off?

itishe

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I've read, "She comes First" but I don't believe it did much for me in terms of getting ladies off through oral and finger stimulation.

What do you guys do with your girlfriends/lovers that really gets them off hard.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kiss, touch, rub, massage, lick, thrust, bite, repeat.
Foreplay is what gets a woman more ready to Orgasm.
When she wants you to put it in, she'll usually just grab your jimmy and put it in her. This means what? She's ready.
Foreplay. Foreplay. Foreplay.
 

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Yep, it's mainly in her MIND. Take control and show her you are a MAN.

Aside from that, practice makes perfect. Pay close attention to what works and what doesn't.
 

itishe

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Ok, you guys did absolutly nothing in your replies.
 

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hour of foreplay and then 45 minutes to an hour of intercourse usually gets the hardest women to orgasm. If that don't work, you sure as hell got a nice little ab workout. I know that I got abs from it.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Psychological stimulation, dominance, passion and anticipation.
2 steps forward, one step back usually makes her go wild.
Just follow your gut and be a good lover and make sure you're enjoying yourself.
As for finger technique, David Shade's deep spot stimulation works very well.
 

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itishe said:
Ok, you guys did absolutly nothing in your replies.
What do you want? A freakin' how-to manual? It doesn't work that way.
 

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Well it all depends man. Is this one girl we're talking about or multiples? If its one girl then sh1t it could be anything. One girl I dated could only get off on oral, another she could come during sex but only if she rubbed her ****, and another could come so easily I had her up to nine before she had to stop, she couldnt walk afterwards.:D

If this is happening with multiples it may be something in your basic technique, just go with the flow and read her body. One thing to watch out for is that you don't become repetitive like a robot.
 

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theunflushables said:
Well it all depends man. Is this one girl we're talking about or multiples? If its one girl then sh1t it could be anything. One girl I dated could only get off on oral, another she could come during sex but only if she rubbed her ****, and another could come so easily I had her up to nine before she had to stop, she couldnt walk afterwards.:D

If this is happening with multiples it may be something in your basic technique, just go with the flow and read her body. One thing to watch out for is that you don't become repetitive like a robot.
Thats the best sh!t in the world when she can't even walk anymore. :up:

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah it is. It's even better when no both of you can't walk, and there is nothing to do but lay there in bed and have a smoke.
 

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stick a banana in her *ss and hit her in the face with a pie.
 

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I bring home a big fat paycheck every 2 weeks. Works every time.
 

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if someone brought me a big fat paycheque every 2 weeks i'd get wet also.

wait a second, not sure where id get wet, but dammit id still get wet.
 

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itishe said:
Ok, you guys did absolutly nothing in your replies.
OK, how about I come to your house and bang your broad and you watch and videotape it?
How's that?
Better?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Interceptor said:
OK, how about I come to your house and bang your broad and you watch and videotape it?
How's that?
Better?
Sounds better than, "be the man".
 

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here I'll give you a play-by-play

first make her anticipate it all day long, but not letting her have it.

Secondly, foreplay (kissing, fingering, sucking on the nipples, being rough while sucking) for a straight two hours while watching a movie while not giving up still raising the anticipation factor.

Thirdly, finally "give in" to her and strap on that condom. You know that you did this correctly if she is the one undressing you.

Fourthly, tease her right at the entrance for a minute until she pulls you inside of her (optional).

Fifthly, start pounding inside of her for two straight hours changing positions, speeds, teasing (stop right in like you are going to pull out then ram it back inside of her), talk dirty to her (phone sex helped a lot with me learning how to dirty talk), bite her neck softly, and etc. Use props if you got them. Definitely take control.

NOTE: I advocate giving her pleasure first before you come. Plus, make sure that you manage to not come in a short amount of time. Remember, hit on each part of her dynamic such as physical, emotional, and social.

That was a play by play of the last five hours or so, let me tell you that she had "more than ten" orgasms during that time, according to her. She could not even move her legs by the end of this. It was amazing that I even got her to up and dressed.

She said that I am far superior to any guy that she has had sex with (two other guys) or anybody that she ever heard of. That is the way that I do it. Maybe you have your own way. My way works for me and my girl.

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Or if you don't have five hours, and just want a quickie. Whisper one word to her and whisper it softly and slowly so she hears the sound of every letter of this word. The word is...shoes.
 

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theunflushables said:
Or if you don't have five hours
What can I say, I'm just thorough. This morning only lasted two hours if that makes you feel better.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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