"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what do you do in this situation?

lokariototal

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Say a guy is like a feet taller than you, more muscular, a model, has money and chicks and he's arrogant, shallow and rude, and every time you see him, he tries to make you look bad in front of everybody else....

what do you do in such cases?????
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zarky

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I would avoid being around the guy.

Barring that, I'd probably just laugh at his stupid **** and throw some zingers back when I had the chance.
 

Yuma

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It's honestly as simple as not giving a sh*t. Think about it - the only reason people bully other people is because they have nothing to offer. Part of being a DJ means being complete on the inside before you're complete on the outside. And would you want to hang around people that make others feel bad intentionally? I wouldn't. Totally not my crowd.

If you have to be around him, toss out a few good comebacks whenever he starts something.
 
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