"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what do you do in this situation?

lokariototal

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Say a guy is like a feet taller than you, more muscular, a model, has money and chicks and he's arrogant, shallow and rude, and every time you see him, he tries to make you look bad in front of everybody else....

what do you do in such cases?????
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Zarky

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I would avoid being around the guy.

Barring that, I'd probably just laugh at his stupid **** and throw some zingers back when I had the chance.
 

Yuma

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It's honestly as simple as not giving a sh*t. Think about it - the only reason people bully other people is because they have nothing to offer. Part of being a DJ means being complete on the inside before you're complete on the outside. And would you want to hang around people that make others feel bad intentionally? I wouldn't. Totally not my crowd.

If you have to be around him, toss out a few good comebacks whenever he starts something.
 
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