"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you do if your GF ask you to go somewhere you don't wanna?

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Fela Kuti

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For example, she asks you to watch some crappy movie or attend a boyband concert. My GF does this sometime and if I object, she'll get disappointed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If she has accompanied me to places that i know is not her cup of tea (to make me happy), i'll be nice and return the favor. However, don't be afriad to object to something just because she 'might' get disappointed.
 
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If you can tolerate it, then go, but if you really really don't want to, don't. If she can't understand that then she not worth being your girlfriend
 
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