"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do you do if your GF ask you to go somewhere you don't wanna?

Fela Kuti

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For example, she asks you to watch some crappy movie or attend a boyband concert. My GF does this sometime and if I object, she'll get disappointed.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

sinful

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If she has accompanied me to places that i know is not her cup of tea (to make me happy), i'll be nice and return the favor. However, don't be afriad to object to something just because she 'might' get disappointed.
 

ZenGodMod

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If you can tolerate it, then go, but if you really really don't want to, don't. If she can't understand that then she not worth being your girlfriend
 
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