"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What do you do if your friend is more attractive than you?

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Adam B

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It's really difficult to hit on girls with a couple of my friends because they're easily better looking than me and have better "game". What should one do in these situtations?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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well as for looks...some people are simply more attractive because their genes are better suited for more people...but that doesn't mean you can't look well kept..so make sure you do all that you can cause physical attraction, at least an infinitesimal amount, is necessary

as for "game," learn from them..and if you know you won't be able to do **** with them around, use your time with them as a chance to observe...and actually get numbers/girls when you're alone or with some other/fewer friends

your friends should be able to help you
 
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You just have to outgame them. Most of my friends are good looking so I know what you're going through. You've lost in the looks department but it doesn't mean you can't get the girl, you have to be the better man.
 
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Just go for couples. I have one mate who is much better looking than me whose got great game and I'm so jealous of him usually. But when we go to clubs we're basically eachothers wingman and go for pairs of girls.

Don't fight over a girl with him, it's bros before hos and you'll use friends that way. Word of warning, though, some guys will purposely hang out with guys not as good looking as them so they can get the girl and then ditch the other guy. Not saying that's what this guy is doing (you'll know if it is) it's just a side note.
 
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