"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do you do if your friend is more attractive than you?

Adam B

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It's really difficult to hit on girls with a couple of my friends because they're easily better looking than me and have better "game". What should one do in these situtations?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jeffthechef

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well as for looks...some people are simply more attractive because their genes are better suited for more people...but that doesn't mean you can't look well kept..so make sure you do all that you can cause physical attraction, at least an infinitesimal amount, is necessary

as for "game," learn from them..and if you know you won't be able to do **** with them around, use your time with them as a chance to observe...and actually get numbers/girls when you're alone or with some other/fewer friends

your friends should be able to help you
 

War Against Betaism

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You just have to outgame them. Most of my friends are good looking so I know what you're going through. You've lost in the looks department but it doesn't mean you can't get the girl, you have to be the better man.
 

DJ Axton

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Just go for couples. I have one mate who is much better looking than me whose got great game and I'm so jealous of him usually. But when we go to clubs we're basically eachothers wingman and go for pairs of girls.

Don't fight over a girl with him, it's bros before hos and you'll use friends that way. Word of warning, though, some guys will purposely hang out with guys not as good looking as them so they can get the girl and then ditch the other guy. Not saying that's what this guy is doing (you'll know if it is) it's just a side note.
 
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