What if you're trying to see logistics to set up a date with a girl whos number you got, but she's just boring on text? How are you supposed to find commonalities or interests you share when you're making statements and she doesn't know how to communicate for example
"What I noticed about you is you're wearing all black. You must be an Official lawyer"
and she responds with "No."
Then what do you do? Such a **** response, she doesn't even get the social cue to say "Noo, I am this." So do you keep guessing or ask a question?
"Ok then I'm gonna guess you're an accountant."
and she responds with "Black clothes can be worn for many occasions."
You're not gonna keep guessing wtf she does if she doesn't know to just tell you. So what do you do... You need to ask her "Hmm so mysterious. So tell me what do you do?"
But generally how do you deal with a girl who doesn't hook, you keep making statements until you find a commonality? What do you do if you can't find anything like you ask. I want to set up a date but not straight up ask her "Let's go out on a date", I want to build up to it and see what area she lives in and a general idea of what she likes so I can choose a place to take her. But what do you do if she replies like this:
You: "Do you prefer coffee or tea"
Her: "I don't drink coffee",
You: You seem shy",
Her: "Yes, I'm shy".
You: What fun adventures are you doing today
Her: Nothing
How do you change your text up for a girl like this?
"What I noticed about you is you're wearing all black. You must be an Official lawyer"
and she responds with "No."
Then what do you do? Such a **** response, she doesn't even get the social cue to say "Noo, I am this." So do you keep guessing or ask a question?
"Ok then I'm gonna guess you're an accountant."
and she responds with "Black clothes can be worn for many occasions."
You're not gonna keep guessing wtf she does if she doesn't know to just tell you. So what do you do... You need to ask her "Hmm so mysterious. So tell me what do you do?"
But generally how do you deal with a girl who doesn't hook, you keep making statements until you find a commonality? What do you do if you can't find anything like you ask. I want to set up a date but not straight up ask her "Let's go out on a date", I want to build up to it and see what area she lives in and a general idea of what she likes so I can choose a place to take her. But what do you do if she replies like this:
You: "Do you prefer coffee or tea"
Her: "I don't drink coffee",
You: You seem shy",
Her: "Yes, I'm shy".
You: What fun adventures are you doing today
Her: Nothing
How do you change your text up for a girl like this?
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