"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what do you do for fun?

escaleraroyal

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Currently doing this for fun I spend time playing basketball, swimming, go out with friends to hang out like walking around malls or downtown or have food together, watch movies at home sometimes, dating, sarging, rarely going to club with my friend when I really dont have nothing to do, make money (very exciting and fun). I'm very happy with my activities and hobbies. What do you guys do for fun? Be honest.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DannyM

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I train in professional wrestling once a week, go to gym 6x a week, practise gymnastics tricking with my buddies in park, Play pc games, dating, study mentalism and magic.
 

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I play baseball, go to the gym, play guitar (learning), watch movies, listen to music/go to concerts, and play xbox. I used to do photoshop / digital art stuff but I've kind of lost interest in that.
 

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escaleraroyal said:
Currently doing this for fun I spend time playing basketball, swimming, go out with friends to hang out like walking around malls or downtown or have food together, watch movies at home sometimes, dating, sarging, rarely going to club with my friend when I really dont have nothing to do, make money (very exciting and fun). I'm very happy with my activities and hobbies. What do you guys do for fun? Be honest.
thats exactly what i do for fun

just add in 5 days a week of football practice to that scheadule and thats all me...minus the sarging part.
 

Alex DeLarge

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I play guitar and write music actively with a band and play gigs, I travel as often as possible, I hangout with my friends every night whether it be absolutely crazy or just watching tv, I read a lot.. sometimes I think too much haha, Go for a hike every now and then in the mountains, skateboarding, snowboarding, hit the bars and clubs with friends on the weekends usually just one night, paint and create art in various other mediums, and go for long drives by myself every now and then.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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