"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what do you do for fun?

escaleraroyal

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Currently doing this for fun I spend time playing basketball, swimming, go out with friends to hang out like walking around malls or downtown or have food together, watch movies at home sometimes, dating, sarging, rarely going to club with my friend when I really dont have nothing to do, make money (very exciting and fun). I'm very happy with my activities and hobbies. What do you guys do for fun? Be honest.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DannyM

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I train in professional wrestling once a week, go to gym 6x a week, practise gymnastics tricking with my buddies in park, Play pc games, dating, study mentalism and magic.
 

Rhino

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I play baseball, go to the gym, play guitar (learning), watch movies, listen to music/go to concerts, and play xbox. I used to do photoshop / digital art stuff but I've kind of lost interest in that.
 

irocknike23

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escaleraroyal said:
Currently doing this for fun I spend time playing basketball, swimming, go out with friends to hang out like walking around malls or downtown or have food together, watch movies at home sometimes, dating, sarging, rarely going to club with my friend when I really dont have nothing to do, make money (very exciting and fun). I'm very happy with my activities and hobbies. What do you guys do for fun? Be honest.
thats exactly what i do for fun

just add in 5 days a week of football practice to that scheadule and thats all me...minus the sarging part.
 

Alex DeLarge

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I play guitar and write music actively with a band and play gigs, I travel as often as possible, I hangout with my friends every night whether it be absolutely crazy or just watching tv, I read a lot.. sometimes I think too much haha, Go for a hike every now and then in the mountains, skateboarding, snowboarding, hit the bars and clubs with friends on the weekends usually just one night, paint and create art in various other mediums, and go for long drives by myself every now and then.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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