"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do you do for a living?

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After reading dozens upon dozens of posts endorsing the cookie cutter prep look, I'm getting the idea that half of you guys live in gated suburbs where the toughest decision you have to make all day is which beach necklace to wear with your pink Hollister polo...

anway, what do you guys do for a living to make your cheese?

I'm a webmaster..I run several websites, making my chips from advertising intermediary programs, such as AdSense, Yahoo Publisher Network, Clicksor, and etc..It's a good job because I'm lazy as fvck and don't want a real job until after school..I make A LOT of beans, too..but I'm humble..

GO!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I work in construction as a Labourer lol I actually enjoy the job, grafting ;)

I also develop software when I get a chance to
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I do nothing for living.. I have no job, I live with my parents. I just start University next year.
 
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I'm a 'research assistant' in the agro/bioresource engineering department at my uni (that means 'the professor's b1tch', by the way). Money's good, though.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well in my current job...

'I have been getting 10 dollars, but I'm willing to negotiate'
 
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I am a 20 year old Real estate agent.

Ive been a slacking peice of **** for most of my life though.
 
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aspiring rapper bros
 
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computer drafting using Solidworks & Pro/e........stuck at a computer all day is no fun & it has messed up my eyes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PlasticSurgeon said:
I have one test left and I start my residency training as a doctor. In 4 years I'll be the next Dr. 90210.
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thats awesome man.

WHen the time comes that you want to buy property, hit me with a PM ;)

I get dibs on the good **** before the public does.
 
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MAVER1CK said:
thats awesome man.

WHen the time comes that you want to buy property, hit me with a PM ;)

I get dibs on the good **** before the public does.
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Yeah, good idea to be networking.

Hey, so when you guys die, hit me up with a PM, I know the best morgues, and I can hook you up on discounts for your funerals.
 
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PlasticSurgeon said:
I have one test left and I start my residency training as a doctor. In 4 years I'll be the next Dr. 90210.
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What medical school are you at?
 
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Don Juan Montoya said:
computer drafting using Solidworks & Pro/e........stuck at a computer all day is no fun & it has messed up my eyes.
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Mold designer/investor

Catia & Keycreator.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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