"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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After reading dozens upon dozens of posts endorsing the cookie cutter prep look, I'm getting the idea that half of you guys live in gated suburbs where the toughest decision you have to make all day is which beach necklace to wear with your pink Hollister polo...

anway, what do you guys do for a living to make your cheese?

I'm a webmaster..I run several websites, making my chips from advertising intermediary programs, such as AdSense, Yahoo Publisher Network, Clicksor, and etc..It's a good job because I'm lazy as fvck and don't want a real job until after school..I make A LOT of beans, too..but I'm humble..

GO!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I work in construction as a Labourer lol I actually enjoy the job, grafting ;)

I also develop software when I get a chance to
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I do nothing for living.. I have no job, I live with my parents. I just start University next year.
 

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I'm a 'research assistant' in the agro/bioresource engineering department at my uni (that means 'the professor's b1tch', by the way). Money's good, though.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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well in my current job...

'I have been getting 10 dollars, but I'm willing to negotiate'
 

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I am a 20 year old Real estate agent.

Ive been a slacking peice of **** for most of my life though.
 

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aspiring rapper bros
 

Don Juan Montoya

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computer drafting using Solidworks & Pro/e........stuck at a computer all day is no fun & it has messed up my eyes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PlasticSurgeon said:
I have one test left and I start my residency training as a doctor. In 4 years I'll be the next Dr. 90210.

thats awesome man.

WHen the time comes that you want to buy property, hit me with a PM ;)

I get dibs on the good **** before the public does.
 

~attrACTION~

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MAVER1CK said:
thats awesome man.

WHen the time comes that you want to buy property, hit me with a PM ;)

I get dibs on the good **** before the public does.
Yeah, good idea to be networking.

Hey, so when you guys die, hit me up with a PM, I know the best morgues, and I can hook you up on discounts for your funerals.
 

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PlasticSurgeon said:
I have one test left and I start my residency training as a doctor. In 4 years I'll be the next Dr. 90210.
What medical school are you at?
 

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Don Juan Montoya said:
computer drafting using Solidworks & Pro/e........stuck at a computer all day is no fun & it has messed up my eyes.
Mold designer/investor

Catia & Keycreator.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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