"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What do you do before you approach?

Dustin

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Here's a question what do you guys do to get ready for the approach clear the nervs out of your stomach, example on a girl you see around alot but haven't reallt talked to you.

I usualy imagine myself and that I am a man, and she is just a girl and make the approch cool calm and sedcutive. :box:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BBX

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I said this in another post, i take a good look in the mirror if i can and punch myself in the shoulder so it hurts. approaches in school are very easy to work up the balls to do, the mall etc is a lot harder.
 

KillaCam

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What do I do before I approach?

I don't do anything. I just approach.
 

djweses89

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just dont think about it when you think about it thats wat makes it bother you and you get all nervious if you just go without thinkin no prob
 
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