"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What do you do before you approach?

Dustin

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Here's a question what do you guys do to get ready for the approach clear the nervs out of your stomach, example on a girl you see around alot but haven't reallt talked to you.

I usualy imagine myself and that I am a man, and she is just a girl and make the approch cool calm and sedcutive. :box:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BBX

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I said this in another post, i take a good look in the mirror if i can and punch myself in the shoulder so it hurts. approaches in school are very easy to work up the balls to do, the mall etc is a lot harder.
 

KillaCam

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What do I do before I approach?

I don't do anything. I just approach.
 

djweses89

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just dont think about it when you think about it thats wat makes it bother you and you get all nervious if you just go without thinkin no prob
 
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