After school, if you don;t have a club or sport..what do you do? Is it un-dj like to go home and chill by yourself and just do some work. IS this normal during the school week and then to jsut do stuff w/ friends on the weekends?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What do you do after school?
- Thread starter shark
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SomeRandomGuy
Don Juan
All Dj have there own agendas and necessities. I don’t think there’s an actual RULE saying you cant chill at home once in a while(as long as it doesn’t become into an anti-social type of thing). In my opinion it depends on your priority’s or what your planning on doing, or your goals. Some days it’s good to stay with your friends but there’s nothing wrong with chilling at home after school, especially if you can work on other things more important in your life. For example, if you want to be an artist then you would get home after school and work on that, and use that time on something worthwhile like a goal.
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Senior Don Juan
yeah exactly...i agree with RandomGuy..
Being a DJ is improving your lifestyle through girls and being confident about yourself etc..
It is NOT following a set of rules just so people think your cool.
Your thinking about this too much... be yourself, just do whatever you want... a DJ doesnt need people to tell him what to do after school. If u feel like chilling then go chill... if u feel like going home then go home.
Being a DJ is improving your lifestyle through girls and being confident about yourself etc..
It is NOT following a set of rules just so people think your cool.
Your thinking about this too much... be yourself, just do whatever you want... a DJ doesnt need people to tell him what to do after school. If u feel like chilling then go chill... if u feel like going home then go home.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
What i usually do is hangout with friends after school. I watch them try to pickup girls and laugh (One day i will teach them)
What i plan on being my agenda since i workout at home. When i get multiple girls just hangout with them different days.
For example
Monday - Hang in the park with girl 1
Tuesday - Hangout by arcade with girl 2
Wednesday - Hangout by girl 3 house
Thursday - Hang with friends
Friday - Hang with friends , party
Saturday - Bring girl to party
More different girls the more time that is taken up.
What i plan on being my agenda since i workout at home. When i get multiple girls just hangout with them different days.
For example
Monday - Hang in the park with girl 1
Tuesday - Hangout by arcade with girl 2
Wednesday - Hangout by girl 3 house
Thursday - Hang with friends
Friday - Hang with friends , party
Saturday - Bring girl to party
More different girls the more time that is taken up.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
monday- sleep.
tuesday- tutor, sleep.
wed- wingngiht with my boys
thursday - chill with people, then OC night.
friday n sat - drive around, meetup with girls, party if possible.[i'm more or less in the "party crowd." I've jsut got beef with some of the allstar-football big mtohafukkas.
so sometimes goign to parties leads to almsot getting my ass beaten. so i pick my parties wisely. lol
tuesday- tutor, sleep.
wed- wingngiht with my boys
thursday - chill with people, then OC night.
friday n sat - drive around, meetup with girls, party if possible.[i'm more or less in the "party crowd." I've jsut got beef with some of the allstar-football big mtohafukkas.
so sometimes goign to parties leads to almsot getting my ass beaten. so i pick my parties wisely. lol
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
italian school is pretty tough, so usually people don't have time to hang out after school, besides saturday afternoon and sunday.
i usually just have a walk downtown, listen to some music, lift some weights, work on my website or whatever...
i usually just have a walk downtown, listen to some music, lift some weights, work on my website or whatever...
Viper
Banned
Monday - Wrestling Practice
Tuesday - Wrestling Practice
Wednesday - Wrestling Practice
Thursday - Wrestling Practice
Friday - Wrestling Practice
Saturday - Usually a scrimmage/match.
Tuesday - Wrestling Practice
Wednesday - Wrestling Practice
Thursday - Wrestling Practice
Friday - Wrestling Practice
Saturday - Usually a scrimmage/match.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
I have a job that I use to make money to buy sh*t I dont need.
On nights I don't work, I'm working on my car, socializing with girls, and work out at home.
On nights I don't work, I'm working on my car, socializing with girls, and work out at home.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
I USED to stay after every single day and lift weight last year.
But I now am in a weight-training class at school, so staying after isn't needed.
But I now am in a weight-training class at school, so staying after isn't needed.
The Master Disaster
Master Don Juan
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I usually try to get a couple games of scrabble in. Then maybe some yatzee with my stuffed animals...
I just chill with friends after school bout everday. It isn't weird to do nothing afterschool. It is kind of refreshing once and awhile getting some alone time. I've been exausted after spending 7 days a week hanging out. Getting crappy sleep on the floor or luckly sometimes on beds. Depends on your age too. I'm a senior; I have a car. I can get around without my parents so that helps a lot.
But the one thing you gotta remember about being/aspiring (a) dj do what makes you a better person.
I just chill with friends after school bout everday. It isn't weird to do nothing afterschool. It is kind of refreshing once and awhile getting some alone time. I've been exausted after spending 7 days a week hanging out. Getting crappy sleep on the floor or luckly sometimes on beds. Depends on your age too. I'm a senior; I have a car. I can get around without my parents so that helps a lot.
But the one thing you gotta remember about being/aspiring (a) dj do what makes you a better person.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
what I do
post on sosuave
soccer
baseball
workout
chill with people
talk to girlfriend on the phone
make money through odd jobs
and
many other things
comic_relief
post on sosuave
soccer
baseball
workout
chill with people
talk to girlfriend on the phone
make money through odd jobs
and
many other things
comic_relief
Odd Jobs ! lmao, sumones a street pharmasist. Good money if u dont end up dead.
Yep , u guys all got it pretty much right, live your life through other things except woman... they should just be 1 aspect of your life. If you make it 100%, you wont be fufilled.
go out and get girls...
get an education and a high paying job to get girls...
w/e you do, get your prioritys straight.
Yep , u guys all got it pretty much right, live your life through other things except woman... they should just be 1 aspect of your life. If you make it 100%, you wont be fufilled.
go out and get girls...
get an education and a high paying job to get girls...
w/e you do, get your prioritys straight.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.