After school, if you don;t have a club or sport..what do you do? Is it un-dj like to go home and chill by yourself and just do some work. IS this normal during the school week and then to jsut do stuff w/ friends on the weekends?
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What do you do after school?
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SomeRandomGuy
Don Juan
All Dj have there own agendas and necessities. I don’t think there’s an actual RULE saying you cant chill at home once in a while(as long as it doesn’t become into an anti-social type of thing). In my opinion it depends on your priority’s or what your planning on doing, or your goals. Some days it’s good to stay with your friends but there’s nothing wrong with chilling at home after school, especially if you can work on other things more important in your life. For example, if you want to be an artist then you would get home after school and work on that, and use that time on something worthwhile like a goal.
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yeah exactly...i agree with RandomGuy..
Being a DJ is improving your lifestyle through girls and being confident about yourself etc..
It is NOT following a set of rules just so people think your cool.
Your thinking about this too much... be yourself, just do whatever you want... a DJ doesnt need people to tell him what to do after school. If u feel like chilling then go chill... if u feel like going home then go home.
Being a DJ is improving your lifestyle through girls and being confident about yourself etc..
It is NOT following a set of rules just so people think your cool.
Your thinking about this too much... be yourself, just do whatever you want... a DJ doesnt need people to tell him what to do after school. If u feel like chilling then go chill... if u feel like going home then go home.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
What i usually do is hangout with friends after school. I watch them try to pickup girls and laugh (One day i will teach them)
What i plan on being my agenda since i workout at home. When i get multiple girls just hangout with them different days.
For example
Monday - Hang in the park with girl 1
Tuesday - Hangout by arcade with girl 2
Wednesday - Hangout by girl 3 house
Thursday - Hang with friends
Friday - Hang with friends , party
Saturday - Bring girl to party
More different girls the more time that is taken up.
What i plan on being my agenda since i workout at home. When i get multiple girls just hangout with them different days.
For example
Monday - Hang in the park with girl 1
Tuesday - Hangout by arcade with girl 2
Wednesday - Hangout by girl 3 house
Thursday - Hang with friends
Friday - Hang with friends , party
Saturday - Bring girl to party
More different girls the more time that is taken up.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
monday- sleep.
tuesday- tutor, sleep.
wed- wingngiht with my boys
thursday - chill with people, then OC night.
friday n sat - drive around, meetup with girls, party if possible.[i'm more or less in the "party crowd." I've jsut got beef with some of the allstar-football big mtohafukkas.
so sometimes goign to parties leads to almsot getting my ass beaten. so i pick my parties wisely. lol
tuesday- tutor, sleep.
wed- wingngiht with my boys
thursday - chill with people, then OC night.
friday n sat - drive around, meetup with girls, party if possible.[i'm more or less in the "party crowd." I've jsut got beef with some of the allstar-football big mtohafukkas.
so sometimes goign to parties leads to almsot getting my ass beaten. so i pick my parties wisely. lol
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
italian school is pretty tough, so usually people don't have time to hang out after school, besides saturday afternoon and sunday.
i usually just have a walk downtown, listen to some music, lift some weights, work on my website or whatever...
i usually just have a walk downtown, listen to some music, lift some weights, work on my website or whatever...
Viper
Banned
Monday - Wrestling Practice
Tuesday - Wrestling Practice
Wednesday - Wrestling Practice
Thursday - Wrestling Practice
Friday - Wrestling Practice
Saturday - Usually a scrimmage/match.
Tuesday - Wrestling Practice
Wednesday - Wrestling Practice
Thursday - Wrestling Practice
Friday - Wrestling Practice
Saturday - Usually a scrimmage/match.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
I have a job that I use to make money to buy sh*t I dont need.
On nights I don't work, I'm working on my car, socializing with girls, and work out at home.
On nights I don't work, I'm working on my car, socializing with girls, and work out at home.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
I USED to stay after every single day and lift weight last year.
But I now am in a weight-training class at school, so staying after isn't needed.
But I now am in a weight-training class at school, so staying after isn't needed.
The Master Disaster
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I usually try to get a couple games of scrabble in. Then maybe some yatzee with my stuffed animals...
I just chill with friends after school bout everday. It isn't weird to do nothing afterschool. It is kind of refreshing once and awhile getting some alone time. I've been exausted after spending 7 days a week hanging out. Getting crappy sleep on the floor or luckly sometimes on beds. Depends on your age too. I'm a senior; I have a car. I can get around without my parents so that helps a lot.
But the one thing you gotta remember about being/aspiring (a) dj do what makes you a better person.
I just chill with friends after school bout everday. It isn't weird to do nothing afterschool. It is kind of refreshing once and awhile getting some alone time. I've been exausted after spending 7 days a week hanging out. Getting crappy sleep on the floor or luckly sometimes on beds. Depends on your age too. I'm a senior; I have a car. I can get around without my parents so that helps a lot.
But the one thing you gotta remember about being/aspiring (a) dj do what makes you a better person.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
what I do
post on sosuave
soccer
baseball
workout
chill with people
talk to girlfriend on the phone
make money through odd jobs
and
many other things
comic_relief
post on sosuave
soccer
baseball
workout
chill with people
talk to girlfriend on the phone
make money through odd jobs
and
many other things
comic_relief
Odd Jobs ! lmao, sumones a street pharmasist. Good money if u dont end up dead.
Yep , u guys all got it pretty much right, live your life through other things except woman... they should just be 1 aspect of your life. If you make it 100%, you wont be fufilled.
go out and get girls...
get an education and a high paying job to get girls...
w/e you do, get your prioritys straight.
Yep , u guys all got it pretty much right, live your life through other things except woman... they should just be 1 aspect of your life. If you make it 100%, you wont be fufilled.
go out and get girls...
get an education and a high paying job to get girls...
w/e you do, get your prioritys straight.
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.