Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
They sell these teeny tiny pens (about the size of those pencils you keep score with at like a minigolf place)... I think they are made especially for people going out looking for numbers. At one point in my life I used to carry a few tiny slips of paper with my number on it... just in case... now I just have my business card (oh god how lame is it to drop a card on someone...?) but I do that more to promote myself, not to give out my number. With cellphones today, it's rare that you even need a pen to give or get a number anymore.Originally posted by duke007
Anybody else have a problem with carrying around a working pen?
When I put a pen in my pants pocket it either leaks or stops working after a few days. So I've resorted to carrying around a pencil!
It's easier for girls because we have purses... but for some strange reason a lot of girls don't carry them around at all...Originally posted by squirrels
I've always been curious how people carry condoms around...you're not supposed to carry them in your pocket cuz they heat up and break down, and I've heard the same thing about the glovebox in summer.
How do you do it?
That would be ADMITTING to yourselves that your sex drive is as bad as ours.Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
It's easier for girls because we have purses... but for some strange reason a lot of girls don't carry them around at all...
I wouldn't trust a condom from a girl in a million years. NEVER. I have heard SEVERAL horror stories about girls PURPOSELY punching pin holes threw. I tried it my self to see how noticable the hole was, and you would never see it. No F'in way. Sorry girls.Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
It's easier for girls because we have purses... but for some strange reason a lot of girls don't carry them around at all...
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.