JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
A woman... You bunch of phreaking pvssies...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What do you call someone who needs advice on relationships?
- Thread starter JPFromTally
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
Here's my impression of half the guys on this forum:
"I'm hoping you guys can help me. I've obsessed over this girl for over two years now. I'm so lucky that I now I'm dating her and I don't mind that she's got my ba11s in a jar above her mantle. But lately she's been distant. The other day she says she doesn't like cereal when all along she's said cereal was the one thing that reminded her of me. What does this mean? How can I win her back? I'll die without her. I'm typing this with tears in my eyes... pleaze help fellas!"
or
"There's this girl in my economics class who asked me for the time the other day. Does this mean she wants to be my girlfriend?"
Oneitis kills....
"I'm hoping you guys can help me. I've obsessed over this girl for over two years now. I'm so lucky that I now I'm dating her and I don't mind that she's got my ba11s in a jar above her mantle. But lately she's been distant. The other day she says she doesn't like cereal when all along she's said cereal was the one thing that reminded her of me. What does this mean? How can I win her back? I'll die without her. I'm typing this with tears in my eyes... pleaze help fellas!"
or
"There's this girl in my economics class who asked me for the time the other day. Does this mean she wants to be my girlfriend?"
Oneitis kills....
Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
Would you get a woman a watch for christmas?
The correct answer:
No, there's a clock on the stove thats all she needs.
****Edit******
Haha, my bad I thought this was a joke post.
But yes I agree. The second you start thinking "wow she's the one" you begin to lose power in the relationship. Loss of power, loss of attraction. Sorta like an electromagnet. Great post JP
FJ
The correct answer:
No, there's a clock on the stove thats all she needs.
****Edit******
Haha, my bad I thought this was a joke post.
But yes I agree. The second you start thinking "wow she's the one" you begin to lose power in the relationship. Loss of power, loss of attraction. Sorta like an electromagnet. Great post JP
FJ
JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
That's a good one FJ...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
I come here to wade through all the AFC oneitis junk in order to find the good tips, success stories, approach journals and yes, to give advice.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
What advice have you really supplied here?
All I remember reading from you was that you nailed some broad that eventually got married and you thought it was hilarious that the guy was getting a hoe, and then you mocked him. That's pretty solid advice
Also, yes, I would marry miss nevada because everyone knows a mediocre-looking party slut turned pageant queen is gonna be a wholesome wife.
All I remember reading from you was that you nailed some broad that eventually got married and you thought it was hilarious that the guy was getting a hoe, and then you mocked him. That's pretty solid advice
Also, yes, I would marry miss nevada because everyone knows a mediocre-looking party slut turned pageant queen is gonna be a wholesome wife.
