"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hello fellas,

So earlier my LTR girl calls me to talk..she keeps complaining that she's bored tonite and wants to do something, but I refuse because I have a crapload of studying to finish. Anyway, I get off the phone and get back to the books. About 2 hours later, I get a call on the phone. When I answer it, there's nobody replying on the other end, and then they hang up. I do a *69 on it, and it's coming from my girlfriend's phone. This has happened once before but I thought nothing of it. Twice...seems as if it's a little obsessive.

What do you guys think of this? Any pertinent comments would be appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She's horny.
 
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Luveno

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and the winner is?

Wow, very eloquent. Anyone else?
 
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Her actions don't seem that odd to me, given that she's bored and wants to do something. It's good that you're doing your studying. Next time explain that you have to study (which you already did), and make a definite time you will see her. Don't leave it open-ended. She'll have something to think about and anticipate.
 
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None of you think that her calling later and not saying anything at all, then hanging up isn't strange?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's not that strange. She wants to talk/or see you, but she knows you have to study. So she kind of goes half-way. And there's always the possibility that she's checking up on you. :)
 
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was it ur house phone? that would make no sense..
but if she called ur mobile phone then i would suggest she was checking up.. listening for background noise which doesn't suggest studying..
 
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Yeah she's checking up on you. I'd ignore just ignore it unless it starts becoming annoying like if you get crankcalls all the time.
 
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think its weird though. i think she should have just said something when you picked up.. because calling and hanging up is just... creepy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Luveno
None of you think that her calling later and not saying anything at all, then hanging up isn't strange?
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I think it's weird and a bit obsessive. This would send up red flags for me. If it happens again, call her on it.
 
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