"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What do women think of smoking?

PRMoon

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Originally posted by diablo

Right... and if you don't smoke, then you get that other 50%. I don't know about you, but doubling my chances of success by simply not putting a cigarette in my mouth seems to be a pretty easy thing to do...
True enough. Then again if you live in an area where the population of girls is astronomically high (As I do), smoking or not, there's really no way you could persue 100% of the population. Especially since fresh ones come in on a daily basis.

You should definately reconcider smoking if you live in an area where smoking has been banned from most public buildings. But here in Vegas they actually have timed releases for the cigarette smoke out of the top of the casinos. Yeah you try to tell a guy who just dropped 20K on black jack that smoking is prohibitied. Plus the tax here for cigs is high, one more reason why there's no state income tax.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Move
If any girl i was in a relationship with tried to stop me from smoking, it would be a sackable offense.
Amen, brother!


I too, despise the fascist anti-smokers. The other day I saw a display at my local mall which included anti-tobacco drawings made by little children as part of a school project (hm...they only get one message). I wanted to knock it down and destroy it.

Here's an interesting link: http://www.forces.org/

When I can afford it I'm going to donate some money.

Ben

P.S. PRMoon...that sucks that there's lots of cigarette tax and no state income tax. It'd be fairer to everyone if there was income tax but no cigarette tax. Then the anti-smokers can't benefit from state services funded through cigarette taxes. Then they'd have to pay, like everyone else.
 

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I don't deny that im addicted. I have no problem with smoking. I quite like it regardless of who tells me that by smoking i will avoid a horrible death PLUS double my chances of meeting girls.

Right... and if you don't smoke, then you get that other 50%. I don't know about you, but doubling my chances of success by simply not putting a cigarette in my mouth seems to be a pretty easy thing to do...
diablo, by that comment, your obviously not a smoker - if only it were as easy as that...

I say, if i can only get the 50% then that's fine - i'll take the 'dirty smoker girls' over someone who is gonna give me ****e all the time 'coz i smoke.

I think that a smoking/non-smoking relationship has some extra strains - I've definitely noticed with my friend and her boyfriend, he hates her smoking and makes sly comments about it all the time, it pisses her off and makes her feel guilty. Maybe we should just keep to our own :)
 

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i dont smoke... much. I like cigars but i usually smoke them alone. But its funny, girls will smoke all they want but they dont want a guy who does usually.
Recently i met a girl who smokes like half a pack to a whole pack a day and she swears the kind of man she is lookin for is a non-smoker (btw, thats where i say HI with a wink and a nod). She wants a boyfriend who doesnt smoke to help her stop smoking. Tomorrow im gonna test something out with her so depending on what happens ill report back here, lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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