"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do women think of beards?

HandyAndy

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Maybe this has been discussed before, but what are womens take on beards/facial hair. Maybe some of the female members can give us their opinion. Do they like clean shaven men, scruffy beards or well groomed facial hair? Discuss :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Crazy Asian

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there are many mixed opinions on that with girls.
i'd say do which one YOU think looks better because then you'll be more confident.

it's like asking girls do you like white shirts or black shirts better?
 

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Yes your right actually, I feel confident with my beard and a stubble that I get at the end of the week, I feel and look older, which makes me more confident.
 

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It's comparable to women with short or long hair.

Most women like clean cut guys, but if a beard suits you it can make you more attractive.
 

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uhh well i had "groomed facial hair" for years and shaved it off just recently but i dont get any more/less feedback. jus do whatever looks good on you and look clean
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Effington

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As already stated, there are generally mixed opinions from females, so you should do whatever fits you the best.
 

moto

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clean shaven is best in my opinion.
 

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I've tried all sorts of facial hair and clean shaven that I like, and get positive comments from different girls. One key thing is that regardless of what facial hair you grow, don't let it get in the way of kissing. As long as you don't sandpaper her face, she'll be fine with whatever makes you feel sexy & confident.
 
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