"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What do women think of beards?

HandyAndy

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Maybe this has been discussed before, but what are womens take on beards/facial hair. Maybe some of the female members can give us their opinion. Do they like clean shaven men, scruffy beards or well groomed facial hair? Discuss :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Crazy Asian

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there are many mixed opinions on that with girls.
i'd say do which one YOU think looks better because then you'll be more confident.

it's like asking girls do you like white shirts or black shirts better?
 

HandyAndy

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Yes your right actually, I feel confident with my beard and a stubble that I get at the end of the week, I feel and look older, which makes me more confident.
 

ChrizZ

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It's comparable to women with short or long hair.

Most women like clean cut guys, but if a beard suits you it can make you more attractive.
 

Soprano

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uhh well i had "groomed facial hair" for years and shaved it off just recently but i dont get any more/less feedback. jus do whatever looks good on you and look clean
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Effington

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As already stated, there are generally mixed opinions from females, so you should do whatever fits you the best.
 

moto

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clean shaven is best in my opinion.
 

Jitterbug

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I've tried all sorts of facial hair and clean shaven that I like, and get positive comments from different girls. One key thing is that regardless of what facial hair you grow, don't let it get in the way of kissing. As long as you don't sandpaper her face, she'll be fine with whatever makes you feel sexy & confident.
 
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