"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what do u guys think of this?

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aight so this HB (lets call her 1B) i asked out well over a year ago, but she turned me down, and i just carried on like nothing had happened, still remained friendly with her

The last 6 months ago, me and my best friend and 1B and her best friend have been hanging around together. Both of the 1B andher friend have boyfriends, 1B is even living with her BF, but having problems because hes been cheating on her with 3 other HB's.

Any ways 1B and her friend hav asked more than once, why i dont have a girlfriend.

At the weekend 1B kept coming up and linking arms with me, etc etc, offering me massages because i had a sore neck. On the mini bus home i was tired, and she said that i could rest my head on her tits if i wanted, there soft like pillows, and she didnt mind if i did.

I just laughed and told her that i had a disorder for sucking and licking my pillows before i went to sleep at night so i dont think it would be wise.

Im no longer interested in her like i used to be, i even think to myself what i saw in her.

Im just interested what you guys think. i dunno if she was interested before but i never actually gamed her probably, i just asked her out once, which she said she was tired, and didnt fancy it.

is it that we have become good friends that shes comfortable around me, or she likes me? i dunno

help a brother out, i wanna understand women more
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you could be her "cuddle b*tch".. WHO KNOWS... next time you are close to her breast, don't do anything.. but start massaging her p*ssy area... make her feel erotic and then start fingerf*cking the life outta her and tear her clothes off and ETC. YOU WILL ACHIEVE ALL THE GOALS YOU WANT...through the dark side...
 
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lol nah

well i say good friends, i hang around with her like twice a month, if that, but we talk when we see each other around college and that


she told me she had a dream about me

i said
oh yeh what happened...she said u just gave me a hug

i said
okkkk

she said
well my BF dont hug me no more, so i think thats why i dreamed about u givin me a hug





i dont hug her, i barely physically have conntact with her...accept when she offers me massages haha
 
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darthsidious

Tisk. Tisk. Tisk!


First of all this guy is on a damn bus man, so I would guess he is still in HS or whatever and doing ANY of that **** would probably get him kicked out or even worse a front row seat ina court-room!

Second.. Why in the hell would you tell this chick that you had a disorder? Should have slammed your head down there and at most LIGHTLY bite her on the breast. If she digs it move forward.
 
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After reading that second post of yours I will have to say stay the hell away from this one.

She is only looking for trouble. I have a feeling that even if you did anything she is just looking for a weapon to use on her cheating man.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LOL!!!! the disorder thing was a joke...and i would have put my head down there if i could, just for a mess around, but like i said my neck was sore, i couldnt move it to my right which was the side she was sat on, i had to turn my whole body to just look in her direction when i was sat down..

but yeh i dont wanna get with her, im just tryin to understand whats going on
 
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