"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do u guys say?

stoner1129

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Well generally when i'm talking to chicks they usually tell me right there or later on that they love my eyes or that they're so gourgeous. So when they tell me that i usually have nothing smart or cool to say so i usually say "huh thanks" with a little laugh. So yeah i basically have nothing smart to say, so does anyone have any advice or anything better?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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paraguayandj

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It all depends how long you know her.
If you just met her, you shouldn't really be too ****y with your comment. Remember, first impression is everything. If she tells you that right away, it shows some level of attraction. So, you should say something like: Thanks, I really like yours too!
Only say that if you want her. That comment will plant the seed. I always get comments from girls about my smile and saying that works great for me.
If you known her a while, but there is not that much connection between both of you. Then you could say something like: I bet you tell that to all the guys you meet!
Again, only say this if you want her. Don't give ugly women false hope (they tend to be clingers, and it feels horrible to tell them you don't like them.)
If there is a lot of trust between you too. You can go as ****y as you want. I will say something like: Yeah, I like them too.
Whenever I say something like that, I can see in their expression that they are thinking: you jerk! (they love it thou)
 
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