"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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stoner1129

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Well generally when i'm talking to chicks they usually tell me right there or later on that they love my eyes or that they're so gourgeous. So when they tell me that i usually have nothing smart or cool to say so i usually say "huh thanks" with a little laugh. So yeah i basically have nothing smart to say, so does anyone have any advice or anything better?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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paraguayandj

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It all depends how long you know her.
If you just met her, you shouldn't really be too ****y with your comment. Remember, first impression is everything. If she tells you that right away, it shows some level of attraction. So, you should say something like: Thanks, I really like yours too!
Only say that if you want her. That comment will plant the seed. I always get comments from girls about my smile and saying that works great for me.
If you known her a while, but there is not that much connection between both of you. Then you could say something like: I bet you tell that to all the guys you meet!
Again, only say this if you want her. Don't give ugly women false hope (they tend to be clingers, and it feels horrible to tell them you don't like them.)
If there is a lot of trust between you too. You can go as ****y as you want. I will say something like: Yeah, I like them too.
Whenever I say something like that, I can see in their expression that they are thinking: you jerk! (they love it thou)
 
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