"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do the tall guys wear?????

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I have like no style, I'm 6'3" and relatively skinny, I just can't seem to find anything that looks good AND fits, I buy 2XL, XLT shirts but they always droop off or hang excessively off my body (picture a bell with legs), I have to buy oversized / baggy pants just to get the length I need, and I can't find a large sized pair of shoes that looks good, to make things worse, when I finally do find good fitting shirts, pants, etc they always end up like 2 sizes smaller after laundry, it's very frustrating.

So my question is, what types of clothes do you other tall guys wear? Where do you get your clothes from? What brands? I really don't know anything about style so any advice would help.

Thank you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Dude, find a good tailor.
 

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At 6'4" 190lbs,i have had this problem many times.

I usely where pants that are about 34W/36L so that the dont slide of my a** as i go about my day,but this are a pain to find in most stores.They are out there,it just takes a bit to find them.

For shirts,i wear mostly white or black A-shirts(wife beaters) as undershirts in a large size,find them at wal mart that have the extended lenght,and eather button down shirts in large size,which can be found at most walmarts,kmart,ect,or if i dont feel like them, i have a near insane amount of large and XL size T's that are eather a solid color,or have crazy designs on them.I have never had to wear anything bigger then an XL,becuse I end up looking like a wannabe gangsta.

For shoes,you will just have to go to a shoe store,and look around becuse very few people look as good as i do in my shoes.Just wear jeans that you normaly wear,so you can get an idea of how they will look on an avarge day.

Most of my clothes end up being from walmart,but i really dont mind that,becuse they are cheap,but still look good,and will look good longer with just a little bit of care(i.e. no dry cleaning,or any treatment i cant do at home)
 

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im not tall or skinny but one of my friends is. He wares tight stuff under neath (like a tight vest) and then his normal stuff on top.
Annother guy same build wares two pairs of trackie bottoms at once Lol
 

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I'm 6' but skinny as hell and have the same problem. Shirts that fit me lengthwise are too wide everywhere, especially in the neck opening. Shirts that fit my frame are just too short.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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5'10, 180.. usually wear a med or large tee depending on the brand..i like my shirts kinda tight tho, well not tite tite but not baggy either.. my waist is about 31 but i like to wear 32,33-34 so it fits a little looser in my thighs and stuff..

i usually wear abercrombie and stuff and it fits me pretty well..

just depends on the brand and ur style
 

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If you go to a department store and look for the boxer briefs, there are usually some white tight shirts in packages like underwear is packaged. They're nice because the material is made to stretch to your form.

No real advice to fitted clothes. Jeans should be easy to find, I don't understand what your problems could revolve around. There are so many _styles_ of jeans and how they fit let alone sizes that I'm confused how anyone would have trouble finding a pair that fits unless they're obese. Relaxed fit, Loose fit, Regular, etc. etc. Did you check multiple styles or just one and give up?
 

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Hey man i'm 6'5 195 pound (im 16).
I just buy walmart jeans and order bowling shirts off the internet. I also wear sleaveless shirts under it. I understand about the shoes, it's near impossible to find good ones. Things tend to stop at 11.5
 

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6'4" is what, a 34" or 36" inseam? Those aren't hard to find - I know Gap and Banana Republic go up to 36" online. Levi's do the classic 501 jean in every size imaginable.
 

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lnghrngeek said:
(but maybe those girls just like pessimistic/goth looking guys)
Not maybe, but 120% sure!

Unless they were just being sarcastic and making fun of you...:whistle:

Either way, it's bad...:D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jeans from wal mart? Damn, at least step it up to foleys or jcpennies. 5'10 is not tall, thats about average bud. Height doesnt directly correlate to waist size. Not that ive corrected you people...heres what i do...i wear baggy jeans that sag a little so i can be comfortable. I usually wear t shirts that fit me or are maybe a little small. I like my shirt to reach my pants but fuvck big shirts, i gotta show off my studded belt. I also wear skater shoes cause theyre comfotable and dont look like ****in boats. Im pretty much a badass.
 

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If you have big feet, buy boot cut jeans so they hang over more of your shoes/trainers, and they will look less big.
 

Le Parisien

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lnghrngeek said:
no they weren't making fun of me, and how is it bad if they're into me?
Because that would mean that you actually are a pessimistic/goth looking guy and the chicks are probably also goth chicks with ugly big piercings on their nose and tattoos as well.

Basically yuk!:down:
 

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lnghrngeek probably has dark hair and dark eyes. I'm that way and girls always tell me I look good in black when I wear it.
 

Le Parisien

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lnghrngeek said:
no, the chicks didn't all look like that, and besides if the chick looks good aside from her piercings/tattoos then I don't see what the problem is
To each his own anyway.

I was just busting on you a little bit, but it looks like you do have some goth tendencies and somewhat like goth girls. Whatever makes you happy man...:p
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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