"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What do make of these texts?

TIC

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Met her at a club last week, we hung out all day yesterday, got to know each other.

Just had this texting session with her:

(started with texts back and forth, how was the party, how was breakfast, blah blah. Then...
Me: I hope I didn't wear you out yesterday haha
Her: no chance. i workout
Me: Oh yea thats right how silly of me. You have alot of stamina that's good :)
Her: :-D

Can anyone make anything out of this? I can't tell where I'm at with her. Did not kiss close the date last night but we did have a decent time and talked alot.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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kingsam

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its called "flirting"

Q1 - you spent all day on a date?!?
Q2 - why didnt you kiss her? is she really traditional/conservative?
 

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so let me get this straight....you met her at a club did nothing, then hung out with her all day and did nothing AGAIN. WTF are you waiting for dude?

Stop analyzing and start acting....
 

TIC

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kingsam said:
its called "flirting"

Q1 - you spent all day on a date?!?
Q2 - why didnt you kiss her? is she really traditional/conservative?
Yes your good at spotting that. She is sort of religious. Now, I did ask her about it and she said she believes (non-denominational christian) but isn't THAT into it.

From talking with her she said "im not a slut" which leads me to believe she does not have meaningless sex, only with boyfriends.

Heres the thing abt the date yesterday. She stays on campus at a school downtown that I live near, so I arranged for us to meet at a cafe there. I drive there and we just end up hanging out on campus all day, and there wasn't much to do. She invited me to her dorm and stuff. I drove her to my campus a little while away, to show her my student life. Drove her back and said goodbye.

Couldn't gauge, at all, whether or not she wanted to be kissed. I didn't have any balls, I was focusing on keeping the convo going and showing that I'm not completely dull in personality. And I did very little keno
 

kingsam

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TIC said:
Yes your good at spotting that. She is sort of religious. Now, I did ask her about it and she said she believes (non-denominational christian) but isn't THAT into it.
hormones always win againt religous indoctrination

From talking with her she said "im not a slut" which leads me to believe she does not have meaningless sex, only with boyfriends.
this is her ASD, most girls are worried about being "judged", so make sure she knows she wont be "judged", and its natural, and shes amazing sexy (fluff talk..etc) do some BSing...

Heres the thing abt the date yesterday. She stays on campus at a school downtown that I live near, so I arranged for us to meet at a cafe there. I drive there and we just end up hanging out on campus all day, and there wasn't much to do. She invited me to her dorm and stuff. I drove her to my campus a little while away, to show her my student life. Drove her back and said goodbye.
shorter and sweeter next time, have male sexual intent (google "rsd male sexual intent"), lead more, be physical,

Couldn't gauge, at all, whether or not she wanted to be kissed. I didn't have any balls grow them :) , I was focusing on keeping the convo going and showing that I'm not completely dull in personality you are the catch. And I did very little keno
university is a time for banging lots of girls , not wasting time with PRUDE ones so step up, and if starts going nowhere drop it and move on ...

get her to go round yours for "movies" or whatever (she should understand what is going on) and you have to lead the physicality
you WILL encounter LMR with her, but thats easy to get round, it may take one or two goes to conquer... but progress each time ... girls live in the moment so

check out the links to RSD college FR's i posted in this thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=177844
lots of very good experiences to learn from
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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