"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what do i say to this?

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Alright so this chick im talkin to writes me a letter today saying that one of her friends is giving her information to believe i dont want anything to do with her anymore. Obviously , i confront her about it and she says her friend said "I think you and him spend too much time together so i really dont think he likes you anymore " ... so now this chick believes her friend and thinks i dont wanna be with her anymore. What would you grizzled DJ veterans do in a situation like this... A reply would be appreciated. PhILLY 05
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I need you to clarify a few things first.

First, you're going out with this girl, right? And you're spending a lot of time with her, so her obviously jealous friend says that because you're spending time with your girlfriend you don't like her?
 
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I met her about 3 months ago and weve been hanging out alot , shes not my 'girlfriend' but its obvious me and her like eachother. She knows what i think about her. The sad thing is she just keeps saying she believes her friend , so what am i supposed to do?
 
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3 months and still not dating??? if u wait any longer u will become her girlfriend, and soon she'll be doing ur make-up!!!.. seriously, it sounds like this girl is just hinting for u to take her out.... if i were u, i'd grow a ballsack, and then next time she brings it up, just say fine "lets talk about it over dinner.. hows friday?"....then take it from there
 
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Good first post Jive.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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