"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what do i say to this?

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Alright so this chick im talkin to writes me a letter today saying that one of her friends is giving her information to believe i dont want anything to do with her anymore. Obviously , i confront her about it and she says her friend said "I think you and him spend too much time together so i really dont think he likes you anymore " ... so now this chick believes her friend and thinks i dont wanna be with her anymore. What would you grizzled DJ veterans do in a situation like this... A reply would be appreciated. PhILLY 05
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I need you to clarify a few things first.

First, you're going out with this girl, right? And you're spending a lot of time with her, so her obviously jealous friend says that because you're spending time with your girlfriend you don't like her?
 
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I met her about 3 months ago and weve been hanging out alot , shes not my 'girlfriend' but its obvious me and her like eachother. She knows what i think about her. The sad thing is she just keeps saying she believes her friend , so what am i supposed to do?
 
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3 months and still not dating??? if u wait any longer u will become her girlfriend, and soon she'll be doing ur make-up!!!.. seriously, it sounds like this girl is just hinting for u to take her out.... if i were u, i'd grow a ballsack, and then next time she brings it up, just say fine "lets talk about it over dinner.. hows friday?"....then take it from there
 
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Good first post Jive.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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