what do i say to this?

[philly05]

Alright so this chick im talkin to writes me a letter today saying that one of her friends is giving her information to believe i dont want anything to do with her anymore. Obviously , i confront her about it and she says her friend said "I think you and him spend too much time together so i really dont think he likes you anymore " ... so now this chick believes her friend and thinks i dont wanna be with her anymore. What would you grizzled DJ veterans do in a situation like this... A reply would be appreciated. PhILLY 05

 

[Porky]

I need you to clarify a few things first.

First, you're going out with this girl, right? And you're spending a lot of time with her, so her obviously jealous friend says that because you're spending time with your girlfriend you don't like her?

 

[philly05]

I met her about 3 months ago and weve been hanging out alot , shes not my 'girlfriend' but its obvious me and her like eachother. She knows what i think about her. The sad thing is she just keeps saying she believes her friend , so what am i supposed to do?

 

[Brak86]

if u have coconut-sized balls....maybe u can unexpectedly kiss her-sweep her off her feet! That will make her believe u. But i shouldnt be the one giving advice because i probably couldnt even bring myself to do THAT yet ehehe

 

[jiveturkey]

3 months and still not dating??? if u wait any longer u will become her girlfriend, and soon she'll be doing ur make-up!!!.. seriously, it sounds like this girl is just hinting for u to take her out.... if i were u, i'd grow a ballsack, and then next time she brings it up, just say fine "lets talk about it over dinner.. hows friday?"....then take it from there

 

[Porky]

Good first post Jive.