what do i say if im rejected

[cablecow15]

Im going to ask this girl out on monday, and if i get rejected i want to have somthing good to say.like somthing that will make her realize she just lost somthing good.You know something that will make her rethink her choice. I think she will say yes but i want a backup plan.(just in case)

 

[Anomalous]

Say exactly these words:

You: Hey HB, im going to the mall this weekend, want to tag along............Or if you can't handle the fun.
Her: (if she says no) I guess you can't handle the fun.

 

[aftershock]

Act like you're not bothered. Don't say "Your loss" or similar, it makes you sound bitter.

You should take rejection as smooth as possible, and don't change your behaviour around her too much.

 

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Originally posted by aftershock
Act like you're not bothered. Don't say "Your loss" or similar, it makes you sound bitter.

You should take rejection as smooth as possible, and don't change your behaviour around her too much.

I dont see anything wrong with saying "Your loss"... if the guy wants her to feel that it IS her loss. Anyways that line doesnt even work (which brings me to the last paragraph of this reply) so yeah.

If you want her to rethink her choice then you can say:
"Well...You're the one missing out.."

then you simply leave.

Theres not much you can say or do if a girl rejects you. At least not that i know of. Your best bet is to say something on the lines of what whyshy wrote.