"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
what do I respond to this?
- Thread starter AriMamba
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
VladPatton
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"I'm looking for some serious sex!"
"What's the difference?"
MisterSisterFister
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!"You: "No that's not all I'm looking for, unless that's all you've got." or something like that!
most girls are boring and they have nothing really interesting going on for them so they know that the most powerful weapon they got to conquer you is sex. but this is a really good strategy to see who is the real deal and who is the wannabe.
you know that you got your game together when you pass this kind of sh!t tests like a boss.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
AttackFormation
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Ha ha this is perfect!om1xr said:
thunder_god
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Maximus Rex
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Say one of the followingAriMamba said:
1) Accuse of a Freudian slip and her question implies that she only wants you for your body.
2) Say, "Why do ask?" She'll give some b.s. answer then say "Oh, I thought you were interested in deflowering me." She'll "What," or something to the effect of your being a virgin?, Then you'll say, "I thought you wanted to take my virginity." She'll wonder if you are indeed a virgin, but you'll neither confirm or deny your virginity. When she presses you, you'll say, "Do you think that I'm a virgin?" Whether she answers yes or no, you response with, "Okay, I'll be that today." Then it becomes an ongoing joke.
3) Say I want a a combination of both, serious sex.
4) Tell her that you only have sex with women that you have a certain connection with and she has a long way to go before that connection is even made.
Just say you are looking to make new friends and have fun. If the girl is ok with it not leading anywhere, she will play along.AriMamba said:
If she wants something serious, she will bail. Theres nothing wrong with that. There are plenty of women out there looking for casual fun. No need for games, silly overthinking answers or any crap. Just be forthright. I havent had a problem telling a girl straight up I just want to have fun. I even bring it up myself usually in order to avoid drama. And if the chick is the type who is gonna fall hard for me after sex, I usually just move on without pursuing her just to avoid issues.
Good luck.
Mr. Kalikoat
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"Why do you ask? Did you plan on just using me just for sex and you're afraid you might hurt my feelings?"
"That depends on whether you're serious girlfriend material. Do you think you are?"
"I just go with the flow. Where do you hope this will go?"
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^thunder_god said:
That one is also REALLY good. Chapeau.