"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
what do I respond to this?
- Thread starter AriMamba
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
"I'm looking for some serious sex!"
"What's the difference?"
MisterSisterFister
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!"You: "No that's not all I'm looking for, unless that's all you've got." or something like that!
most girls are boring and they have nothing really interesting going on for them so they know that the most powerful weapon they got to conquer you is sex. but this is a really good strategy to see who is the real deal and who is the wannabe.
you know that you got your game together when you pass this kind of sh!t tests like a boss.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
PrettyBoyAJ
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MisterSisterFister
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Ha ha this is perfect!om1xr said:
thunder_god
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Say one of the followingAriMamba said:
1) Accuse of a Freudian slip and her question implies that she only wants you for your body.
2) Say, "Why do ask?" She'll give some b.s. answer then say "Oh, I thought you were interested in deflowering me." She'll "What," or something to the effect of your being a virgin?, Then you'll say, "I thought you wanted to take my virginity." She'll wonder if you are indeed a virgin, but you'll neither confirm or deny your virginity. When she presses you, you'll say, "Do you think that I'm a virgin?" Whether she answers yes or no, you response with, "Okay, I'll be that today." Then it becomes an ongoing joke.
3) Say I want a a combination of both, serious sex.
4) Tell her that you only have sex with women that you have a certain connection with and she has a long way to go before that connection is even made.
Just say you are looking to make new friends and have fun. If the girl is ok with it not leading anywhere, she will play along.AriMamba said:
If she wants something serious, she will bail. Theres nothing wrong with that. There are plenty of women out there looking for casual fun. No need for games, silly overthinking answers or any crap. Just be forthright. I havent had a problem telling a girl straight up I just want to have fun. I even bring it up myself usually in order to avoid drama. And if the chick is the type who is gonna fall hard for me after sex, I usually just move on without pursuing her just to avoid issues.
Good luck.
Mr. Kalikoat
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"Why do you ask? Did you plan on just using me just for sex and you're afraid you might hurt my feelings?"
"That depends on whether you're serious girlfriend material. Do you think you are?"
"I just go with the flow. Where do you hope this will go?"
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^thunder_god said:
That one is also REALLY good. Chapeau.