I don't message women every day. I'm in a rural area, so not enough women in my area to be doing that with.
I would ask them something about one of their interests in the profile.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What do I need to change about my POF profile to get messages?
- Thread starter DJDeMarco
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I would ask them something about one of their interests in the profile.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
OP, try sending a "Hello my name is ____"
this usually gets a response, kinda like at a club.
My Euro profile for 32-40yo (im 50)
" I like to explore, and experience life. My nature is calm and optimistic and I am quite clever as you discover me, I have much passion for life and enjoy romance. Traveling is something I often do and love. I have no plan to move back to America. I am handsome with an excellent sense of humor, smart, kind and love animals. but language is no closed door to my world."
I noticed if you get the "no response" or a flake after a text/message, send this...
"I see you are not interested. No hard feelings!" and move on.
this almost always works if you really feel you need a second shot, or pull a no to a yes fairly well.
this usually gets a response, kinda like at a club.
My Euro profile for 32-40yo (im 50)
" I like to explore, and experience life. My nature is calm and optimistic and I am quite clever as you discover me, I have much passion for life and enjoy romance. Traveling is something I often do and love. I have no plan to move back to America. I am handsome with an excellent sense of humor, smart, kind and love animals. but language is no closed door to my world."
I noticed if you get the "no response" or a flake after a text/message, send this...
"I see you are not interested. No hard feelings!" and move on.
this almost always works if you really feel you need a second shot, or pull a no to a yes fairly well.
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