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What do I need to change about my POF profile to get messages?

DJDeMarco

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How many women do you message per day?

What do you typically write in your first message?
I don't message women every day. I'm in a rural area, so not enough women in my area to be doing that with.
I would ask them something about one of their interests in the profile.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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MrWood

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OP, try sending a "Hello my name is ____"
this usually gets a response, kinda like at a club.

My Euro profile for 32-40yo (im 50)

" I like to explore, and experience life. My nature is calm and optimistic and I am quite clever as you discover me, I have much passion for life and enjoy romance. Traveling is something I often do and love. I have no plan to move back to America. I am handsome with an excellent sense of humor, smart, kind and love animals. but language is no closed door to my world."



I noticed if you get the "no response" or a flake after a text/message, send this...
"I see you are not interested. No hard feelings!" and move on.
this almost always works if you really feel you need a second shot, or pull a no to a yes fairly well.
 
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