I don't message women every day. I'm in a rural area, so not enough women in my area to be doing that with.
I would ask them something about one of their interests in the profile.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What do I need to change about my POF profile to get messages?
- Thread starter DJDeMarco
- Start date
I would ask them something about one of their interests in the profile.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
OP, try sending a "Hello my name is ____"
this usually gets a response, kinda like at a club.
My Euro profile for 32-40yo (im 50)
" I like to explore, and experience life. My nature is calm and optimistic and I am quite clever as you discover me, I have much passion for life and enjoy romance. Traveling is something I often do and love. I have no plan to move back to America. I am handsome with an excellent sense of humor, smart, kind and love animals. but language is no closed door to my world."
I noticed if you get the "no response" or a flake after a text/message, send this...
"I see you are not interested. No hard feelings!" and move on.
this almost always works if you really feel you need a second shot, or pull a no to a yes fairly well.
this usually gets a response, kinda like at a club.
My Euro profile for 32-40yo (im 50)
" I like to explore, and experience life. My nature is calm and optimistic and I am quite clever as you discover me, I have much passion for life and enjoy romance. Traveling is something I often do and love. I have no plan to move back to America. I am handsome with an excellent sense of humor, smart, kind and love animals. but language is no closed door to my world."
I noticed if you get the "no response" or a flake after a text/message, send this...
"I see you are not interested. No hard feelings!" and move on.
this almost always works if you really feel you need a second shot, or pull a no to a yes fairly well.
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