"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what do I make of this?

papawapa

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Just met this chick the other day. Got her number, been texting. This afternoon she tells me she wants to have a conversation, can she call me. Delayed and called her, made small talk, built rapport. Talked to her again tonight and am not sure where I stand.

She says she wants to make new friends, doesnt want a relationship. But I get this vibe that she really does want a relationship and is just momentarily jaded.

We talked about my work, I travel a lot, and she asked me how I could have a relationship if I am always gone. She also said something about me getting some strange out on the road. She made it a point to let me know she has a booty call. Then later she said she hurt her neck today but didnt want to say how. I got her to tell me, it wasnt difficult at all, she said she did it masturbating this morning.

She responds quickly to texts and laughs at all my jokes. I know there is some level of attraction. But I am confused by the mixed messages.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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narcissist

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base her motives on her actions not her words..

shes interested, but sh1t testing u.. dont fvck up
 

Purefilth

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narcissist said:
base her motives on her actions not her words..

shes interested, but sh1t testing u.. dont fvck up
Don't fvck up? wrong - YOU should be testing HER, not the other way around - just because she shows a little interest she gets your head in a tizz.

for a narcissist you sure have a lot to learn about self preservation.

Yes judge by actions, not words - ruling here is



ATTENTION WH0RE - NEXT!!
 

HyperAnalyze

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The only real way is to invite her out and escalate.

Don't waste time with this friendship conversation BS.

If she feels comfortable talking about her masturbating and not giving you any good signals that's a sign that something fishy is going on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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El Suave

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Exactly what HyperAnalyze said. She wants to bang. Don't waste time with BS and give her what she wants. :cheer:
 

Albatross953

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Totally agree she's baiting you. Call her bluff. Escalate.

I had one this week complain to me about showering alone, but she went ghost when I escalated. Sometimes its just for attention.
 
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