"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do i do?

salsipuedes

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Well, 1st i came here because i couldn't land any women, and now i find myself in unfamiliar problems, i guess its one of the side effects of visiting this board. I currently have a girlfriend and we have been togheter for about 2 months, shes a great woman, beautiful, great personality, she has a great family, and shes definately marriage material, really, shes a great woman that i feel i could one day marry soon. Problem is, i am also seeing another person, not very often, we see each other every week or so, and i know me and her have no chance because shes too different and we have very diferent lifestyles, her family sucks, and i guess shes the total opossite to my girlfriend. Problem is, me and her have incredible sex, and not just physical, we are talking great emotional sex in wich i almost feel i love her, she seems to truly show her emotions only when we have sex, and shes unable to show her emotions in everyday life. I know i have to stop this, on one hand i have a really good girlfriend wich has everything i need for a lifetime comitment, but on the other hand, i got the other woman, wich personality and life i dont like, but that i am completely in love when we are intimate.

What should i do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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joekerr31

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you sir, are an idiot.

you sound like a chic. love, marriage, cheating, confusion, etc.

real men know what they want and take what they want. if you want a committed relationship then dont cheat. if you dont care about a committed then be a prick and cheat.

grow up and take responsibility for your actions. instead of whinning that you don't know what to do.

yutz.

J
 

salsipuedes

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Originally posted by joekerr31
you sir, are an idiot.

you sound like a chic. love, marriage, cheating, confusion, etc.

real men know what they want and take what they want. if you want a committed relationship then dont cheat. if you dont care about a committed then be a prick and cheat.

grow up and take responsibility for your actions. instead of whinning that you don't know what to do.

yutz.

J
Are you stupid or what?

I am not a kid anymore, and it is posible for having strong feelings for two women, its not my fault it hasnt happened to you. If things where as easy as many say they are here, this board wouldnt be as popular as it is and guys like Doc love wouldnt be making millions. I am unable to decide simply because i have feelings for both women, its not as simple as you ignorantly want to put it.
 
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