"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do i do?

salsipuedes

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Well, 1st i came here because i couldn't land any women, and now i find myself in unfamiliar problems, i guess its one of the side effects of visiting this board. I currently have a girlfriend and we have been togheter for about 2 months, shes a great woman, beautiful, great personality, she has a great family, and shes definately marriage material, really, shes a great woman that i feel i could one day marry soon. Problem is, i am also seeing another person, not very often, we see each other every week or so, and i know me and her have no chance because shes too different and we have very diferent lifestyles, her family sucks, and i guess shes the total opossite to my girlfriend. Problem is, me and her have incredible sex, and not just physical, we are talking great emotional sex in wich i almost feel i love her, she seems to truly show her emotions only when we have sex, and shes unable to show her emotions in everyday life. I know i have to stop this, on one hand i have a really good girlfriend wich has everything i need for a lifetime comitment, but on the other hand, i got the other woman, wich personality and life i dont like, but that i am completely in love when we are intimate.

What should i do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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joekerr31

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you sir, are an idiot.

you sound like a chic. love, marriage, cheating, confusion, etc.

real men know what they want and take what they want. if you want a committed relationship then dont cheat. if you dont care about a committed then be a prick and cheat.

grow up and take responsibility for your actions. instead of whinning that you don't know what to do.

yutz.

J
 

salsipuedes

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Originally posted by joekerr31
you sir, are an idiot.

you sound like a chic. love, marriage, cheating, confusion, etc.

real men know what they want and take what they want. if you want a committed relationship then dont cheat. if you dont care about a committed then be a prick and cheat.

grow up and take responsibility for your actions. instead of whinning that you don't know what to do.

yutz.

J
Are you stupid or what?

I am not a kid anymore, and it is posible for having strong feelings for two women, its not my fault it hasnt happened to you. If things where as easy as many say they are here, this board wouldnt be as popular as it is and guys like Doc love wouldnt be making millions. I am unable to decide simply because i have feelings for both women, its not as simple as you ignorantly want to put it.
 
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