"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What do i do?

salsipuedes

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Well, 1st i came here because i couldn't land any women, and now i find myself in unfamiliar problems, i guess its one of the side effects of visiting this board. I currently have a girlfriend and we have been togheter for about 2 months, shes a great woman, beautiful, great personality, she has a great family, and shes definately marriage material, really, shes a great woman that i feel i could one day marry soon. Problem is, i am also seeing another person, not very often, we see each other every week or so, and i know me and her have no chance because shes too different and we have very diferent lifestyles, her family sucks, and i guess shes the total opossite to my girlfriend. Problem is, me and her have incredible sex, and not just physical, we are talking great emotional sex in wich i almost feel i love her, she seems to truly show her emotions only when we have sex, and shes unable to show her emotions in everyday life. I know i have to stop this, on one hand i have a really good girlfriend wich has everything i need for a lifetime comitment, but on the other hand, i got the other woman, wich personality and life i dont like, but that i am completely in love when we are intimate.

What should i do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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joekerr31

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you sir, are an idiot.

you sound like a chic. love, marriage, cheating, confusion, etc.

real men know what they want and take what they want. if you want a committed relationship then dont cheat. if you dont care about a committed then be a prick and cheat.

grow up and take responsibility for your actions. instead of whinning that you don't know what to do.

yutz.

J
 

salsipuedes

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Originally posted by joekerr31
you sir, are an idiot.

you sound like a chic. love, marriage, cheating, confusion, etc.

real men know what they want and take what they want. if you want a committed relationship then dont cheat. if you dont care about a committed then be a prick and cheat.

grow up and take responsibility for your actions. instead of whinning that you don't know what to do.

yutz.

J
Are you stupid or what?

I am not a kid anymore, and it is posible for having strong feelings for two women, its not my fault it hasnt happened to you. If things where as easy as many say they are here, this board wouldnt be as popular as it is and guys like Doc love wouldnt be making millions. I am unable to decide simply because i have feelings for both women, its not as simple as you ignorantly want to put it.
 
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