"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what do i do?

MiKe23

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This girl who told me to just be friends with her after I asked her out has called me a few times this week and i never picked up cuz i was always busy doing something. and then she sent me 3 e mails and i never replied. So finally a few days after she sent those messages i called her. She kept telling me that she missed me and she was really getting on me about not calling her. Then she said I owe her a ride. I just got my license. So tonight I made it sound like i was busy which i am cuz i have to help one of my cousins out. So I told her tomorrow id pick her up. She said we could do something tomorrow night. She said to just be friends about 2 weeks ago. So what do i do now? i know good places to take girls but what about in this kind of situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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08aisaac

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Well maybe she actually wants to be friends and you should go out with her. She might want to be friends with benifits bacause I know girls lke that. Just go out with her knowing that she probaly wants to hook up. She wants to hang out right? So go have fun.
 

immrtlwun

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Either do what 08aisaac said or do nothing because she might just be an attention wh**e.
 
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