"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what do i do?

MiKe23

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This girl who told me to just be friends with her after I asked her out has called me a few times this week and i never picked up cuz i was always busy doing something. and then she sent me 3 e mails and i never replied. So finally a few days after she sent those messages i called her. She kept telling me that she missed me and she was really getting on me about not calling her. Then she said I owe her a ride. I just got my license. So tonight I made it sound like i was busy which i am cuz i have to help one of my cousins out. So I told her tomorrow id pick her up. She said we could do something tomorrow night. She said to just be friends about 2 weeks ago. So what do i do now? i know good places to take girls but what about in this kind of situation?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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08aisaac

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Well maybe she actually wants to be friends and you should go out with her. She might want to be friends with benifits bacause I know girls lke that. Just go out with her knowing that she probaly wants to hook up. She wants to hang out right? So go have fun.
 

immrtlwun

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Either do what 08aisaac said or do nothing because she might just be an attention wh**e.
 
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