Hi all,
A bit long but I would really appreciate your help with this situation.
I am currently a finalist student at University in the UK. A few months back (March this year) I met a beautiful and smart Indian Student at a University event. During the event itself we had great rapport and it seemed to me that she was very interested in me. So I left the event with her number and a promise to meet up soon.
I contact her a week later asking her to come with me to a theatre show my friend was producing (University Theatre). She would love to do so, except she is about to board plane to the Dubai for the month (Easter Break). She said she would still love to meet up with me after she comes back. I texted her when she did come back, but clearly the interest had subsided. So I did what I believed was the right thing, and pulled back. I didn't contact her thereafter. Then we had our summer break. I went travelling through Europe and South Asia. Had a great time overall.
Came back to University in September, and I meet her in an event again. She is interested when I meet her in person and wants to meet up. I contact her and this time...no response from her. I stopped contacting her too. Suddenly a month later
I received a text from her apologising for the late reply and inviting me to a social event she was hosting (she is the president of a business society). The text itself was written in a way that clearly showed interest in me.
I went to her event last night. She was very busy during the event itself, and I had at most a few minutes with her. However, she was again very happy to see me. We had good rapport during the time we were together and I elicited a promise to meet up. Like before.
What do I do? What I don't want is Deja vu all over again. I would sincerely like to meet up with her.
(1) Contact her today or tomorrow and arrange to meetup? (say for coffee)
(2) Wait for a few weeks before asking her out? ( Take her to a musical/theatre show)
(3) Don't ask her out?
A bit long but I would really appreciate your help with this situation.
I am currently a finalist student at University in the UK. A few months back (March this year) I met a beautiful and smart Indian Student at a University event. During the event itself we had great rapport and it seemed to me that she was very interested in me. So I left the event with her number and a promise to meet up soon.
I contact her a week later asking her to come with me to a theatre show my friend was producing (University Theatre). She would love to do so, except she is about to board plane to the Dubai for the month (Easter Break). She said she would still love to meet up with me after she comes back. I texted her when she did come back, but clearly the interest had subsided. So I did what I believed was the right thing, and pulled back. I didn't contact her thereafter. Then we had our summer break. I went travelling through Europe and South Asia. Had a great time overall.
Came back to University in September, and I meet her in an event again. She is interested when I meet her in person and wants to meet up. I contact her and this time...no response from her. I stopped contacting her too. Suddenly a month later
I received a text from her apologising for the late reply and inviting me to a social event she was hosting (she is the president of a business society). The text itself was written in a way that clearly showed interest in me.I went to her event last night. She was very busy during the event itself, and I had at most a few minutes with her. However, she was again very happy to see me. We had good rapport during the time we were together and I elicited a promise to meet up. Like before.
What do I do? What I don't want is Deja vu all over again. I would sincerely like to meet up with her.
(1) Contact her today or tomorrow and arrange to meetup? (say for coffee)
(2) Wait for a few weeks before asking her out? ( Take her to a musical/theatre show)
(3) Don't ask her out?
