“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What do I do about this push-pull?

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Hey everyone,

I'll try to make this brief..

I had sex with a girl I've been dating on the second date.. We also did on the third date.. But after that, things got a bit weird. The next time, a half week later, she told me she was "really tired" (it was 2am), then told me it was "actually, it's that time of the month." This was on Wednesday. So we go out on Saturday and we get back and she starts oral on me and won't let it go anywhere else. I'm drunk and I don't..finish so she gets upset. I explain she shouldn't be, etc. She apologizes about getting upset profusely the next day.. But in the next morning/early afternoon I try to make a few advances (heavy kissing, etc) and she seems to gracefully stop things before they get very far..

I totally respect a girl that wants to hold off.. but I don't get this at all.. What do you guys and gals think..

I want to believe it really "is that time of the month", but I don't think her period is going from (Tuesday?) Wednesday to Sunday. Besides, if you saw what she had on, you wouldn't think so either. It's not so much that I just want into her pants (though that's great).. I actually like her a lot

What do you Don Juans think is going on? Am I making much to do out of nothing?

Ryan
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wimmen's periods are the bane of human existence. Not only are they uncomfortable for the wimmen involved, they can also make life for the guy a living hell.

Menstrual cycles can also be very irregular, so don't assume right away that she's feeding you a line. (I don't think that you made that assumption, but I mention that just to clarify.)

Could also be she has a yeast infection or something and doesn't feel like telling you about it. Or maybe she thinks she might have an STD. Or maybe she's rethinking the whole intercourse thing with you right now. Could even be that she has developed a dread fear of pregnancy.

Could also be that she's playing you.

My advice (though you didn't really ask for it, I'm great at giving out unsolicited pointers) is to avoid becoming pu55y-whipped at all costs. If you think she's yanking your chain, call her on it, and it's up to you to decide if she's being truthful or not.

Go with your instincts here, and good luck!
 
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Do we really need to go by strict Don Juan dictionary terms? It's a generic way I described what I think might be going on.. She didn't have me, tried harder, has me more now, and now shes backing away from sex.
 
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