"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do I ask this chick to do if I'm not supposed to just "ask her out"?

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Ok, so, if you wanna read, heres the link.

<a href="http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1256924&posted=1#post1256924">The Story</a>

Well, crap, I can't get the stupid thing to link.

Not sure what I'm doing wrong.

The jist is, this girl is attractive, and fairly solid, but she does have a kid (3yr old). Basically, she was engaged and got dropped when the kid came into the picture.

Anyway, I met her through a friend bout 3 months ago. Thought nothing of it.

I saw her at the Salon she manages about2 months ago.

I saw her at a friends party bout 7 weeks ago.

I saw her friday before last when I went back to the salon for a cut.

I think she might be interested. I dunno if I'm really interested. But a date out would do nothing but help me to grow as I've had nothing going AT ALL since my LTR ended in Feb.

So, I just wanna call her up at the Salon, and ask her out.

Apparently, just asking is a bad idea. (From what was posted in the other thread).

So, since I really dunno her interests yet, and theres no big community event coming up, what can I say if I can't just call and ask her if she wants to go out sometime?

Thanks all.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wait till you need another cut, chat with her then ask for her number. Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know.
 
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Thanks, thats weeks away.

I'm lookin to make contact this week. its been 3 months since I met the girl, so no chance she's seein me as desperate. I'm just trying to figure what to ask her to do.
 
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Ask her to come along with you to a party.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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can you say... high school forum for a reason?
 
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