"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What do I ask this chick to do if I'm not supposed to just "ask her out"?

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Ok, so, if you wanna read, heres the link.

<a href="http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1256924&posted=1#post1256924">The Story</a>

Well, crap, I can't get the stupid thing to link.

Not sure what I'm doing wrong.

The jist is, this girl is attractive, and fairly solid, but she does have a kid (3yr old). Basically, she was engaged and got dropped when the kid came into the picture.

Anyway, I met her through a friend bout 3 months ago. Thought nothing of it.

I saw her at the Salon she manages about2 months ago.

I saw her at a friends party bout 7 weeks ago.

I saw her friday before last when I went back to the salon for a cut.

I think she might be interested. I dunno if I'm really interested. But a date out would do nothing but help me to grow as I've had nothing going AT ALL since my LTR ended in Feb.

So, I just wanna call her up at the Salon, and ask her out.

Apparently, just asking is a bad idea. (From what was posted in the other thread).

So, since I really dunno her interests yet, and theres no big community event coming up, what can I say if I can't just call and ask her if she wants to go out sometime?

Thanks all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Wait till you need another cut, chat with her then ask for her number. Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know.
 
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Thanks, thats weeks away.

I'm lookin to make contact this week. its been 3 months since I met the girl, so no chance she's seein me as desperate. I'm just trying to figure what to ask her to do.
 
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Ask her to come along with you to a party.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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can you say... high school forum for a reason?
 
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