"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do hot girls and high SMV dudes do with their lives after 30?

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Makes sense. I also live in a small town, so it isn't hard to find good girls.
I might join you down there one of these days. There's little substance up here in NYC. All they are after and interested in is $$$. It's very sad.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I might join you down there one of these days. There's little substance up here in NYC. All they are after and interested in is $$$. It's very sad.
Unecessary i used to live in Boston and Lowell in MA, and also spent some time in NY; Small towns in the US are just as good.
 

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I thought your post was about people with high SMV? I’m confused now.
Paris Hilton is on a whole another level due to her fame, family and net worth. So, she's the exception, not the rule. As is many of the women who are in insane shape and lots of money. They can fight the wall. I.E. Look at Liz Hurley @ 52.
 

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Paris Hilton is on a whole another level due to her fame, family and net worth. So, she's the exception, not the rule. As is many of the women who are in insane shape and lots of money. They can fight the wall. I.E. Look at Liz Hurley @ 52.
Stacy Dash, Megan goode, Jennifer Aniston, Naomi Campbell .
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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