R.U.G.
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I might join you down there one of these days. There's little substance up here in NYC. All they are after and interested in is $$$. It's very sad.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What do hot girls and high SMV dudes do with their lives after 30?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
djthiago1
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Unecessary i used to live in Boston and Lowell in MA, and also spent some time in NY; Small towns in the US are just as good.
I thought your post was about people with high SMV? I’m confused now.
R.U.G.
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Paris Hilton is on a whole another level due to her fame, family and net worth. So, she's the exception, not the rule. As is many of the women who are in insane shape and lots of money. They can fight the wall. I.E. Look at Liz Hurley @ 52.
mrgoodstuff
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Stacy Dash, Megan goode, Jennifer Aniston, Naomi Campbell .
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.